Ross M. Grant, age 88, of Shelton, entered into eternal rest on Monday, November 2, 2026. He was the devoted husband of Virginia (Zayas) Grant, with whom he shared nearly 62 wonderful years of marriage.
Born in Belfast, Maine, on January 4, 1938, Ross was the first child of the late Harold and Martha (Greene) Grant. He graduated from the University of Maine with a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering. Upon graduation, Ross and his cousin Roger moved to Stratford, Connecticut, for job opportunities. Ross began attending the young adult group at the United Methodist Church, where he met the love of his life, Virginia. They were married in June 1965 and purchased a house in Shelton where they built their life together and created countless memories over the years.
Ross worked as an electrical engineer at Sikorsky Aircraft. While working full time, he pursued a master’s degree in electrical engineering at New York University. During his time at Sikorsky, he contributed to the design and development of innovative technologies aimed at improving helicopter performance and capabilities. This work resulted in three patents bearing his name, After approximately 45 years of dedicated work, Ross was able to enjoy a long retirement.
Ross had a lifelong passion for steam trains. He was a member of the Pioneer Valley Live Steam Club in Southwick, Massachusetts, for 60 years. On many summer weekends throughout those years, Ross could be found at the club, tinkering with the scaled-down, rideable locomotive he had built, taking it for a run around the tracks, or simply relaxing and enjoying the company of friends. Ross was also an avid reader and could often be found reading two or three non-fiction books at a time. He was a sports fan as well and was always happy to talk about his favorite teams.
More than anything, Ross cherished his family and loved spending time with them. He was the beloved father of Martha Struber and her husband Jeff, Marion Grant-Thibodeau and her husband Kevin, Mary Grant, and Margaret Grant and her husband Michael. He was the proud grandfather of Johnathon, Michael, Melanie, Jacob, Joseph, and Ryan. Ross is also survived by his brother, Harold Grant, Jr.
The Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Road Shelton, has been entrusted with the funeral arrangements, which are private.