The Pilgrim Bar-B-Que was there in the late 1960s, when Ansonia was a manufacturing stronghold full of factories.
The Pilgrim was there in the 1980s, when music stars on tour in the region like Pat Benatar and Journey ordered their private party food from the popular Ansonia eatery and caterer.
But the Pilgrim is no more. The shop closed Wednesday, finally done in by the bad economy and a dwindling customer base.
“The hard part is accepting it,” said owner David Guliuzza, 42, who also owns the building, which is for sale.
The business started six decades ago, but entered the Guliuzza family in 1967 when Joe “Chicken Joe” Guliuzza bought it. He developed it and sold it to his nephew David Guliuzza in 1989.
Business slowed down in recent years.
Original customers evaporated and new ones didn’t come fast enough to replace them. There was a lot of new competition, for chicken, fried fish and ribs, and about three years ago Guliuzza said he had to get rid of the credit card and debit card machine. It was costing too much money for the small business. That further eroded business.
“It was costing me $18,000 a year in fees,” Guliuzza said of the machines.
A note on the Pilgrim window Thursday read:
“Due to these economic times, I find it hard to say that I can’t afford to serve you anymore. Through these doors walked the world’s finest customers and since I was 8 found it great to know each and everyone by name. Thank you for all your support through the years and we will keep plugging forward to make everything get a little better. God bless you and we will keep you in our prayers.”
The news was bad for Ansonia and the Valley.
“Say it ain’t so,” said Bill Purcell, president of the Greater Valley Chamber of Commerce. “His food was so good. He was a Valley landmark.”
It’s more than a business going out. It’s the loss of memories of Ansonia, the way it used to be. The city once had many mom-and-pop
retail stores along its downtown streets.
“I’d come down every so often and get a meal. I was here I think last week. I thought it was really good, I enjoyed it,” said Ingacious Preneta of Ansonia, whose favorite was barbecued ribs (see top video).
The seafood was just as good as the ribs.
“I never had a bad experience. My favorite item was the crab cakes, the best I ever tasted,” said Raoul Rodriguez, walking downtown.
It was a shock to downtown merchants.
“Of course, it’s scary, we’re all struggling,” said Michael Ciocca, co-owner of Eddy’s Bake Shop down the street.
“We’re losing too many local businesses,” lamented Charlie Seccombe, owner of Seccombe’s Men’s Shop, which has been doing business downtown since 1924.
“I hate to see any of them go out,” Seccombe said.
The Pilgrim closed its doors at 375 Main Street Wednesday after a long period of not getting enough customers, said Rose Marie Spatafore of E-Z Travel and Tours, president of the Ansonia Business Association.
“It’s heartbreaking,” said Spatafore, whose office is on Kingston Street downtown.
Customers don’t have the loyalty they once did and don’t patronize the local businesses like they used to, Spatafore said.
The restaurant had moved around town several times during its long stay in Ansonia.
It was first on East Main Street, then next to the Riverside Apartments, and for the past 22 years or so downtown.
“It was always a landmark, said Claude L. Perry Sr., economic development director for the city.
“Even if you go in there and look at the photographs on the wall, and see the stars that came through the eatery, this is like history,” Perry said.
The takeout restaurant had a catering room, the La Rosina room. The place had many photographs of the stars who had food there. The Derby Historical Society’s president, Rob Novak, had been there a number of times.
“They were a Valley institution. You hate to see any of these, as you say, bite the dust,” Novak said.
In its heyday the Pilgrim drew people downtown from outlying areas and other towns. They were a customer draw for the surrounding shops, Seccombe said.
“They’ve always been considered a staple in the downtown area, I guess they got competition,” Seccombe said.
It’s hard for Guliuzza to swallow, because he always gave to the community. He was a donor to many local causes.
But it’s a two-way street.
“I gave as much as I could,” Guliuzza said.

There goes the best deviled eggs anyone has eaten.
They will be missed.
I am so sorry to hear this news but good things will come to you David. You have always been there to help others and now it is time for you to take time for you. You need to start living your life and enjoying your time. You only live once, and you can’t get time back so enjoy the rest of your life and do something that you always wanted to do. Good luck on your new journey and I hope the path is paved with nothing but good things!
I thought the casino bus was going to bring hordes of hungry travelers to patronize the Ansonia restaurants. I guess they must be eating at the casino instead. Who could have seen that coming?
Sad to see this place go.
Only the Valley Indy would interview a guy who never ate there to comment on the place…unbelievable.
Boss51 — The gentleman in the video summarizes, perfectly, why the place closed.
Eugene, no worries about Boss, SF. He loves to tear down other people’s great work.
And why were there not enough customers? My two biggest reasons – no place inside to sit, and the only sodas were cans/bottles from a display refrigerator – no cups and no ice. It took probably 15 or 20 minutes to cook fish & chips from scratch and having to stand up waiting. I figured out the was I should have called ahead and picked it up. But to do that, I first needed the menu at home and I live a bit far away to take it all the way home Add to the mix the assorted homeless people and drug addicts loitering around downtown, that’s a tall order.
You will find my comments about the folly of the casino bus here the day it was announced. I did have foresight.
Sharpeye is right.
Failing businesses and homeless people on main street must simply be accepted as part of the beauty of Ansonia, and the Valley.
Why, they’re as Valley as the grafitti near the projects, or the projects themselves!
Now, getting back to reality, people have every right to criticise. Have you seen downtown Ansonia?
We should be welcoming any suggestions to improve!
People, please take those rose-colored glasses off.
Also- Art Stone was not “writing off” main street. He was offering sensible ways that Pilgrims might have improved their business.
You don’t need a “crystal ball” to offer sound business advice.
Sharpeye, you’re starting to sound like an apologist for Ansonia city hall. Please cut it out.
Shapeye-
Who said anything about blaming city hall? That is not what I was attemtping to do. I said you sound like some sort of apologist. Please re-read my posts.
By the way- are you suggesting that criticizing city hall is somehow improper? Again, you sound defensive, and like you have an agenda.
And you attacked “Art Stone” for saying that the business could have been run better. Yet now you now say even tax breaks would not have saved it. Again- sounds like someone has a dog in this fight.
So you like the current administration. That’s great- I like many of them too. But that doesn’t mean you can’t be a little critical. It’s the same point Art made- sometimes things CAN be done better. Nothing is inevitable, etc etc.
But hey, keep those rose colored glasses on. It’s your call.
And also Sharpeye, YOU were the one who brought the Mayor and City of Ansonia into this first. Please re-read all of the posts.
Art Stone said nothing about the City of Ansonia. You re-interpreted his criticism of the downtown area as an attack on city hall.
You’re the one being obviously political.
And this isn’t the first post you’ve unnecessarily brought politics up in an Ansonia related post.