Richard James Hyder, Sr., 77, of Bridgeport, Ct, passed away suddenly at home on April 13, 2026. Born on December 13, 1948, in Derby, Ct, to Ferris Hyder and Jeanette Coppola, Richard—known fondly as Rick—lived a life marked by kindness, generosity, and an unwavering dedication to his family and friends.
Rick’s professional journey was as diverse as it was impactful. He began his career in the restaurant industry, working his way up from dishwasher to chef. He often reminisced about his time at Tanners in Ansonia with great fondness. Later, Rick became part owner and operator of Agua Viva Waterbeds, with locations in the Ansonia and Trumbull Malls. As VP of Marketing and Sales, he excelled as a salesman and trainer for salespeople and installers. It was during this chapter of his life that he met Carolyn Petrovich—a talented salesperson and widow—who would later become his beloved wife.
Rick concluded his career with the State of Connecticut as Food Services Coordinator for Mead Hall Juvenile Detention Center. Over three decades of service, he took immense pride in crafting menus that were often deemed “too good for the delinquents.” His dedication to his work left a lasting impression on colleagues and those he served.
Beyond his professional accomplishments, Rick’s personal life was rich with love and connection. He is survived by his children: sons Richard Hyder Jr., Robert Hyder (Tara), Kenneth Petrovich; daughters Lisa Argraves(Steve) and Christine Petrovich; sister Katherine Tardy (Dave); brothers David Hyder and Franklin Hyder; ten grandchildren; and four great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents Ferris Hyder and Jeanette Coppola; sister Mary Danielecki; granddaughter Zoie Petrovich; wife Carolyn Ellis Petrovich Hyder; sister-in-law Debbie Hyder; father-in-law Robert O. Ellis; and his faithful companion Nugget.
Rick’s hobbies reflected his zest for life and love for those around him. A passionate golfer for much of his life, he relished every opportunity to play the sport he adored—even attempting to pass on its appreciation to his grandchildren. For years, he attended Saturday poker games at his father-in-law’s home—affectionately referred to as “therapy sessions” In recent years, Rick found much joy attending concerts with brother Dave.
Known for forging strong bonds with friends near and far, Rick maintained daily connections with those closest to him—whether through visits with Dee or conversations via social media or email. His warmth extended beyond family and friends to everyone he encountered: the mailman, physician, receptionist—all were touched by his kindness.
Rick’s generosity knew no bounds. He would give selflessly to help others—even if it meant going without himself. His smile warmed every room he entered, leaving an indelible mark on all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
May Rick’s memory bring comfort to those who loved him deeply and inspire all who remember him to live with the same kindness and generosity that defined his life. A Memorial Gathering was held on April 25 at Jenkins-King Funeral Home 12 Franklin St. in Ansonia.
Burial was held in private.